According to a dominatrix, it’s essential for people to have a “safe space” where they can talk openly about their fantasies.
Having this outlet can prevent pent-up feelings from surfacing in other ways and even help individuals become more well-rounded.
Despite this, some fetishes and fantasies remain under-discussed, leaving them misunderstood.
One such kink, despite its rising popularity, remains particularly tricky for people to navigate and understand.
The rise in popularity
BedBible.com has highlighted this specific fetish as one of the fastest-growing trends among couples in the United States.
They estimate that around 6.25 million couples in the US are involved in this practice, including approximately four million married couples.
Searches for this kink on adult film platforms have surged by 57 percent over the past three years.
Experts suggest that a more “sex-positive environment” is crucial to help people explore this fetish and understand the nuances of human sexuality it reveals.
But what exactly is this fetish?
The fetish
This particular fetish is known as cuckolding.
“The term ‘cuckold’ or ‘cuckoldry’ historically referred to a man whose wife has been unfaithful to him, implying that he is aware of the infidelity and possibly even complicit in it.” BedBible.com explains.
“In modern usage, the term is often associated with sexual fetishes involving the cuckold fantasy, in which a man derives pleasure from his partner engaging in sexual activity with someone else while he watches or otherwise participates.”
Another user responded thoughtfully: “Nothing. It is not a trend. Cuckoldry as a sexual practice is very familiar in classical and medieval sources. We’re talking about a fairly universal sexual thrill.”
Complexities
One user, now deleted, shared: “Interesting post. I think you hit on a lot of good thoughts. Like most things it’s complicated, but all those factors probably contribute. I know for me personally it absolutely is about seeing my wife as a liberated sexual being that can do what ever she wants with whoever she wants with my complete support and encouragement.”
“I love that. So wholesome and so hot to me. I just love women like that, it makes me so happy to see,” another participant chimed in.
Meanwhile, a third person concluded: “I think overall it shows that monogomy is not the sole option.”
It’s also essential to ensure your partner is fully on board with the idea.
Open communication is key, so discuss boundaries clearly with everyone involved to avoid misunderstandings.
For additional guidance, consulting a sex therapist or an expert in the field could be extremely helpful.
